I'm afraid not. Some parts of dm Server depend on Equinox.
Another question, is it possible to run the dm server with Apache Felix, if yes, where can I configure that, I can't find anything about in the internet....
Put the "child" plan you want to refer to in a repository where dm Server can find it and then refer to the plan like any other artifact, e.g.:
And one final question, how should I configure a plan so it depends another plan (I want to control the deployment order, I should be deployed before other is deployed...)